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Last night I spoke at the South County Recovery Residences Association The Lodge at Delray Beach and was surprised when the association gave funds to the Delray Beach Police Department C.A.R.E.S. program. We appreciate the support and the funds will benefit our community. Delray Beach is an amazing community, we do #LEADtheWay

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Sober homes: Four views on drug recovery as new law takes effect

Community leaders in South Florida hope a new state law will help curb problems with sober homes, where people struggling with addiction transition from rehabilitation facilities to “regular” life.

By Kate Jacobson
Sun Sentinel
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DELRAY BEACH — Officers walked into the house thinking it was just another overdose call.

This particular May morning didn't seem any different — in recent weeks, police said they had gotten a lot of those calls — and the apartment complex in front of them seemed just like all the others on the block: somewhat weathered, otherwise unremarkable.

But inside, a woman was dead. Those who lived there told police the complex was a sober home for recovering addicts. They explained the woman had started using again. A lot of them were using again, they said, in the house meant to encourage sobriety.

The home was a drug users' den hiding in plain sight, police said, and officers were shocked.

Bill Hager
Representative Bill Hager District 87 (Sun Sentinel)

Community leaders hope a new state law will help curb problems with sober homes, where people transition from rehabilitation facilities to "regular" life. These homes were not monitored at all in Florida until July 1, when the state launched a voluntary certification program aimed at tracking and regulating them.

It's an issue of special concern in Delray Beach, already dubbed the sober home capital of the United States, where the number of homes continues to grow.

Trouble at 'all hours of the day'

State Rep. Bill Hager, R-Boca Raton, walked around neighborhood after neighborhood, once-quiet, single-family communities that were becoming a safe haven for people with addiction. The newcomers dreamed of sobriety but ended up using instead, the longtime residents told him. Sober homes, they said, were destroying their neighborhoods.

And they wanted to know: What are you going to do about it?

His constituents in Delray Beach had it particularly bad, said Hager, recounting the struggles of the past decade.

In the mid-2000s, unlicensed, unregulated operators were cramming people into houses seeking help for addictions ranging from alcohol to heroin, according to state and local officials. When the residents didn't follow the rules, they were kicked out onto the streets.

Young addicts from across the country suddenly found themselves wandering around Palm Beach County without any money and without any support.

People were fed up with finding needles in parks and on front lawns. Junkies were busting into cars and homes. A hostile relationship between the two groups started to bubble.

"In some of these neighborhoods, there was an all-out war between the neighborhoods and the sober homes," Hager said. "There were drug transactions happening on the front stoops, soiled mattresses being thrown out [onto lawns], cat calls to preteen girls at all hours of the day."

There were no rules for these homes, and lawmakers had no idea exactly how many were operating. Regulating sober homes seemed nearly impossible, because people recovering from addiction are shielded by federal laws, including the Fair Housing and Americans with Disabilities acts, Hager said.

Some sober homes were being raided on charges of fraud and illegal patient brokering. Some homes would get illegal kickbacks from treatment facilities and labs processing drug tests for each patient they sent there, and often would require their residents be drug tested multiple times a day.

After years of pushing bills that failed to pass, Hager saw progress this year when the most recent draft of his bill became state law.

Now, sober homes can voluntarily register with the state — meaning the Department of Children and Families will monitor them, they will have to disclose where they are located and be required to meet certain safety and health criteria.

The law provides some incentives to get home operators to register: It requires state-funded rehab centers to send clients only to state-certified sober homes, and it will guide clients seeking state-certified homes.

Hager said he hopes the legislation will force out the opportunistic sober home operators more focused on making money and allow those seeking help with their addictions to find sobriety.

An uptick in overdoses

Driving down the streets of Delray Beach, Officer Nicole Lucas passes house after house, telling the stories of the people who lived there and the people who have since moved on.

There's the house where a drug dealer used to live, until officers got him off the street. There's the house where a daughter used to live with her mom, before her mom started using drugs and she was taken away, placed into foster care.

There's the house that got broken into, the house where a kid she coaches in basketball lives, the house where a nice elderly couple has been for longer than Lucas can remember.

Nicole Lucas sober home
Delray Beach police officer Nicole Lucas patrols the city where she often deals with issues relating to sober homes and drugs. (Mark Randall / Sun Sentinel)

In the past few years there's been a change, said Lucas, who has worked in narcotics and road patrol in her nine years with the department. There's a growing population of recovering addicts moving into the city, from other parts of South Florida and beyond, and she said she's worried about them.

Some of the sober homes are run by unscrupulous operators who just want money, she said, who find cheap properties in bad neighborhoods already struggling with drug issues. And when they fail to support their patients, their patients seek their drug of choice — alcohol, crack cocaine, heroin — and bolster the drug business.

At the same time, Lucas said, drug dealers prey on patients trying to get better. They relapse. They take bad heroin. And sometimes, they die.

"It's almost like they don't even stand a chance," Lucas said. "Their intention may be to get help, but they're mixed in with drug dealers and people in the neighborhood."

In Delray Beach, officials have seen an uptick in heroin overdoses and deaths in the past few years.

Police Chief Jeff Goldman said at a press conference in May part of it has to do with the recovery community and part of it has to do with a potentially lethal batch of heroin. When a community has a population prone to drug use and bad heroin starts hitting the streets, the combination is deadly, he said.

So far in 2015, there have been at least 26 heroin overdoses, four of them fatal. The overdoses already outnumber last year's, when 18 people overdosed on heroin, and five of them died.

Addicts were overdosing in public parks, needles were sitting next to slides, and residents became increasingly frustrated, police said. Officer Lucas reminds residents that addicts are struggling with a sickness.

Lucas, a mom of two young daughters, said she also feels a sense of disappointment when she has to wake up an addict passed out in a public bathroom.

"I feel bad. A lot of times people just treat [addicts] like dirt because of their life choices," she said. "But there are needles in the playground and people take their kids there and it's just not right."

She said she hopes every time she busts a dealer, she's making it harder to get drugs. For everyone in her community, she said, that's a good thing — especially for recovering addicts who arrived there to find sobriety.

"If that's someone's drug dealer and I arrest them, and they can't reach them, then that might be the night they can't get drugs," she said. "That might be the night they stop using for the rest of their life, or maybe they don't die that night."

Based on drug past, 'I shouldn't be here'

Bill is young, clean-cut; his hair slicked back perfectly and his button-down shirt pressed just so. On a rainy day in May at a Delray Beach coffee shop, he took a drag on a cigarette, leaned forward and rolled up his sleeves.

The 23-year-old Boca Raton resident recounted how he found drugs, how he thought they filled him with a sense of purpose and how now that purpose isn't what it used to be.

"It was the solution to my problems," he said.

Bill, who spoke to the Sun Sentinel on the condition that he only be identified by his first name because of his previous drug history, said he began using drugs and alcohol when he was 15.

Originally from Massachusetts, he, his mom and his younger sister moved to Fort Lauderdale when he was in the eighth grade to start over. His father was living on the south side of Boston and was addicted to crack cocaine, he said. The family had to leave him behind.

He began to feel different from the other kids at school. By 15, he was drinking, and he slowly moved on to harder drugs like heroin, he said.

That led him to lying, stealing and destroying the relationship he had with his mother and sister. He thought of his father still using in Boston and wondered if he was destined to be like him, on drugs and homeless.

On Dec. 15, 2012, he decided he was done. He checked into a rehabilitation facility in Delray Beach and got clean for the first time in a long time, he said.

"What it really comes down to is, 'Have I suffered enough pain?'" he said. "I felt like, OK, I'm going to do this."

After finishing 67 days in the treatment center, he began his new life.

He started working at the recovery center where he was once a patient. He started going to college, got a one bedroom apartment in Boca Raton, started reading books that opened his mind and enjoyed life without drugs.

Slowly he built up the relationship with his mother and sister, whom he calls his best friends. They now have family dinners and family trips and are building memories together again.

Jim Tichy, owner and operator of The Lodge at Delray Beach, a recovery residence, talks about the good and bad recovery residences in Delray Beach. (Mark Randall / Sun Sentinel)

He shares his story hoping not only those seeking sobriety will be inspired, but those who have prejudices against recovering addicts might realize: There are those fighting addiction who can lead respectable, productive lives.

"Why don't people see the good instead of the bad?" he said. "What about kids like me? What if [the addict] was your son, grandson, cousin? They say, 'Oh, it's not me.' But it could be."

Getting help was 'the best thing'

Back in 2000, Jim Tichy was a different man.

Jim Tichy sober home
Jim Tichy, owner and operator of The Lodge at Delray Beach, a recovery residence, talks about the good and bad recovery residences in Delray Beach. (Mark Randall / Sun Sentinel)

He was addicted to alcohol and crack cocaine, he said. After completing a rehabilitation program in his home state of Connecticut, he was looking for the next step. At his rehab center, he saw a pamphlet for a sober living facility called the Lighthouse of Delray Beach.

His family bought him a one-way ticket to South Florida.

Seven years passed and Tichy was still sober. He had found peace, he said, and wondered if there was something he could do to help others.

The recession hit and Tichy, who worked installing floors and windows, found his hours cut back. But the hard economy also brought opportunity – Tichy said he noticed a cheap house that had just gone on the market, and he saw a chance to help others like him.

Now, Tichy is the owner and operator of The Lodge of Delray Beach, a recovery residence operation that operates nine sober homes — five for men and four for women — in the city. He's been an active member of South County Recovery Residence Association and the Delray Beach Drug Task Force, and has been a vocal advocate for sober home legislation and reform.

Tichy runs the operation with the help of 10 employees, most of whom are alumni of his program, he said.

The Lodge pool sober home
Jim Tichy, owner and operator of The Lodge at Delray Beach, a recovery residence, shows off the backyard pool at one of his five mens residences. (Mark Randall / Sun Sentinel)

For the first 100 days they're required to go to some sort of addiction-recovery meeting each day. Chores are divvied between the housemates, jobs outside the home are mandatory, and there are inspections for contraband and curfew. Tichy said he administers drug tests and checks in with residents on an almost daily basis.

"Our reputation around town, if you mention it to anybody, they say 'it's tough,'" he said. "That's a good reputation, in my opinion."

Tichy suspects the housing collapse in the mid- to late-2000s contributed to the proliferation of sober homes. Properties were cheap and easy to come by, and people like him saw their opportunity.

While a lot of legitimate operations flourished, bad ones did, too. As the problem worsened, Tichy decided to fight back.

Through multiple organizations, including the Florida Association of Recovery Residences, he lobbied in favor of the legislation passed through the Florida Legislature. He said he worries the current legislation isn't strong enough, and is hopeful the laws will be strengthened.

The bad homes that plague the reputation of both the city of Delray Beach and the recovery community do a service to no one, he said.

Tichy said moving to Delray Beach changed his life in ways he never thought possible.

He's married now and a devoted member of St. Paul's Episcopal Church in Delray Beach, he said. By becoming a sober home operator, he hopes he can help someone else start anew through sobriety.

"I was blessed to have the opportunity to go to treatment [in Connecticut], and they gave me a one-way ticket out of town to Delray Beach," he said. "It was the best thing that ever happened to me."

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Those who are overcoming an addiction to drugs or alcohol realize the process is one that never ends. No one merely quits and then never has to worry about the disease again. Constant challenges to persons who wishes to stay clean and sober does have to follow a number of helpful tips and steps to remain sober even when stress, anxiety, and other problems may threaten the ability to stay clean.

Avoid all the people who are enablers. There are those who can seriously put you at risk for a relapse and these people do have to be avoided. Sadly, some of those people could be those who are close friends and relatives. A real zero tolerance policy must be taken against those who are co-addictive or enablers because such persons can lead to your relapse.

Staying away from things that have the potential to make you all stressed out is advisable. Stress can create quite a number of triggers that can lead to a relapse. Stressful work and home environments can sometimes be a little tough to get away from, but there are other stressful scenarios you will have quite a bit of control over. Exercising that control is strongly advised or else staying sober can become much more difficult. 

Invest time learning about any problems in your past that may have contributed to your addictive behavior. If there are issues with anger, it is time to work hard at letting such feelings go. They are not doing anything other than undermining your ability to remain sober.

Educate yourself as much as you can about addiction and recovery. Contrary to what some might believe, this is not a boring or depressing topic. There are quite a number of interesting and innovative books, audio books, and other learning resources that can help you better understand your condition and how to stay on the right path to sobriety.

Invest time taking care of your physical health. Taking up a new form of exercise or an active hobby can only have very positive benefits. Improving your health is not only going to make the heart and the body stronger, it is going to have a strong effect on the mind. The combination of a strong mind and body can have a great effect on remaining sober.

Work with others who may be trying to succeed in their recovery. By taking steps to offer assistance to those in need, it becomes possible to reinforce your own desire to stay sober. The best way to help someone would be to volunteer services at a sober living facility or another environment where drug and alcohol counselors are supervising. Their expertise should always be deferred to.

Anyone who wishes to stay sober does have to work very hard to achieve the sought after result. No one would ever downplay the process or try to make it sound easy because it certainly is not. To improve the path to pure sobriety, it is suggested to follow a few simple steps and tips for sober living. Doing so can make the new journey to a better life a less stressful and more productive one.

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Without much debate, you could proclaim that Delray Beach is one of the best beach towns in Florida if not the entire country. Mix together the amazing restaurants, the fantastic galleries and those miles of pristine beaches and you've got a perfect recipe for total rest and relaxation. Perhaps that's why Delray Beach has earned a reputation for a positive recovery experience. Many folks who are struggling with addiction issues are making the trek to Delray Beach for the transition between rehab and sober living. That transition is facilitated in serene halfway houses like The Lodge. Could this be the next step on your road to recovery? 

The Ideal Setting

There is a reason why so many folks want to retire to Florida. Simply put, it's the weather. Delray Beach is no exception with days full of bountiful sunshine and warm breezes. This is exactly the kind of environment that will help foster a positive sober living experience. It's hard to stay in a funk when you're surrounded by blue skies all the time. A daily walk to the beaches will provide plenty of positive affirmation by connecting you to nature and a higher purpose in the universe. That's not an exaggeration. Anyone who comes off the Delray Beach feels a whole lot better! 

Embracing Sober Living 

Just because you're living in amazing surroundings doesn't mean the struggle to break free of the hold of addiction is going to be a walk in the park. You're still facing some challenging times ahead. However, it is the community support you'll get in a that can provide you with the tools you'll need to get your life back on track. 

Are you ready for sober living in Delray Beach? Keep these helpful tips in mind:

• Establish New Routines

You need to find substitutes for bad behavior triggers. Many folks in recovery have found that developing a new physical activity routine is a terrific way to stay in shape and refocus your energies and thoughts. What could be better than a morning and evening stroll along the Delray Beach? Once you get into the habit of talking these walks (and maybe jogs?) you can bring that routine back to wherever you'll be living. It might be hard to say good-bye to Delray Beach but at least you'll have that imagine of the beaches in mind for your future meditations. 

• Make New Friends

You're sober now which means you should surround yourself with like-minded individuals. There might come a time when you can go back to your old friends but during this important transition period it is vital that you make new connections with the kind of people who can provide the support you need. These would be the very same people you'll be living with at your Delray Beach halfway house. There is no promise that your new housemates will become friends for life but you never know! 

• Keep Working the Program 

By the time you make it to Delray Beach for your stay at a halfway house you will have already become familiar with how to work your recovery program. Despite what it might look like, you're not on vacation. You still need to work that program. You'll just be working it in a little slice of paradise! 

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A halfway house offers a residential solution for those who need additional support during their recovery from drugs or alcohol. While some people may stay at a halfway house as a condition of a court order, others choose to enter one at the beginning of their recovery so that they can be surrounded by others who are committed to sober living. In addition to providing a place for people to stay, halfway houses also offer many services that can aid a person during their progress toward recovery. If you are wondering what is a halfway house, then here is everything you need to know about how one can help you recover from an addiction.

Who Stays in a Halfway House?
People come to a halfway house from all different walks of life. When learning more about what is a halfway house, many people are surprised to discover the diversity of residents that stay in halfway house programs. While some halfway houses are designated for a specific gender, others offer housing with separate quarters for men and women. Although the people staying in a house may come from diverse backgrounds, the one thing everyone has in common is a commitment to a sober lifestyle.

Why Would Someone Choose a Halfway House?
Once a person knows what is a halfway house, they are interested in learning about the benefits offered by these homes versus traditional housing. Generally, a person will choose a halfway house out of a desire to live within a group of people who prefer a sober lifestyle. Finding out more about what is a halfway house an enable a person to choose this type of living arrangement for the treatment options that are available along with the benefits that come with living in a sober environment. In a halfway house, there is no need to worry about being exposed to things that could trigger your addiction.

What Services Do They Provide?
Among the many things that go into describing what is a halfway house, it is important to note that each one offers many services that can be beneficial during recovery. For example, a halfway house may offer in-patient treatment programs along with detox services. It is also common for them to offer job training and employment programs to assist residents with rebuilding their lives after recovery. Staying in a halfway house also offers residents an opportunity to socialize with others during therapy session and house activities that foster a healthy environment.

What is a Halfway House Going to Expect Out of Residents?
Knowing more about what is a halfway house going to expect from the people in its program is helpful for making your decision. Policies against possession of drugs or alcohol are always in place to protect residents. There will also be expectations regarding curfew, avoidance of violent behavior and profanity along with assigned chores. For those in the process of recovery, every expectation is designed to maintain a safe environment that will help you to overcome your addiction.

Knowing more about what is a halfway house is only the first step. Once you have decided that a halfway house is right for you, you will be ready to choose the right one. Schedule an appointment with a halfway house representative that can explain more about what is a halfway house so that you can begin to take the next step toward sober living.
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